1. Your cat isn't mad. They're scared.

I was sure my cat was being spiteful. Spraying the wall the week I traveled. The couch the day after I told them off. It felt personal. It wasn't.
My cat didn't spray to punish me. They sprayed because they felt unsafe. That's all spraying is: a frightened cat trying to feel safe. Not a cat getting even.
My cat never settled in the one place that should have felt like home.







